that persistent guy At the tender age of 21 I worked as a cocktail waitress, then bartender, at a local dive in my hometown of Las Vegas.

The things I’ve seen there could fill a blog post and would both fascinate and revolt you – but one of the most interesting oddities I would persistently encounter night after night was the persistent sleaze bag.

You’ve seen this guy at bars, nightclubs and dives. He’s the one that comes in at ten and talks to every female.

Me and my regulars would take bets on how long it would take and laugh at the untoward things he’d try to get a woman to go home with him. But the not-so-funny truth about the situation was 9 times out of 10 he’d win… that’s a better batting average than the baddest Major league slugger.

So what was it, these guys were always gross – they had no game – and any woman with half a brain could see that he was using the same routine on everyone regardless of age, race or affiliation.

The golden goose

Yes, persistence can also be used for evil, or in this case just plain gross. This guy wasn’t better, brighter or more charming than the rest (he’d usually be quite lacking) but he had found the goose that laid the golden “laid” egg… and it’s name was persistence.

The funny thing my experiences at “the lodge” taught me about persistence was that if this creep could use it’s powers for evil, why couldn’t I use it for good?

Persistence is what has driven me since I walked from behind the bar years ago and it’s been what has kept me going through tough and tougher. Persistence is what drives me and the team at Zirtual to make it a great company.

Persistence’s exponential growth rate

Persistence is what kept me writing long before anyone actually read this blog and persistence is what pays off in spades as time goes on. I’ve noticed persistence’s exponential growth in my life, both business and personal and it’s absolutely amazing… but hard, at first. Persistence gets easier with time.

persistence If you only remember one quote, ever, remember this one:

Nothing in the world can take the place of Persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan ‘Press On’ has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race.  - Calvin Coolidge

Now ask yourself how you can persist in the coming week. Have you ever persisted through good times and bad, or do you normally give up? Like Coolidge said, persistence really is the difference between success and failure.

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  • http://twitter.com/CommKr8veWriter Emelina Anne Minero

    This is a whole lot of awesome! :) I completely agree. If you stop trying, you’ll never succeed. Persistence is a winner, which is unfortunate for those ladies who allowed themselves to be picked up by the sleaze bags. 

  • Billy

    Persistence sounds like a close cousin to commitment.  Your post has me thinking… what’s the difference between those who make things happen, and those who just talk about doing things but don’t?

  • Anonymous

    Persistence has always been my mantra, though I have to admit that I’m REALLY good at persistently lazing around the house.  I never really thought about the success rate of the sleazebags – but I guess that it just takes one ‘yes’ to make sure that he never stops being creepy and sleazy.

  • http://meaningfulhealers.blogspot.com/ Alex Barthe

    I’ve learned how to become more persistent at doing the right things and dropping the duds.  I like what Seth Godin says in The Dip:

    “Extraordinary benefits accrue to the tiny minority of people who are able to push just a tiny longer than most.  Extraordinary benefits accrue to the tiny majority with the guts to quit early and refocus their efforts on something new.”

  • Rban3

    Reminds me of  Thomas Edison’s genius quote, “one percent inspiration, 99 percent perspiration”

  • http://gainbusinessskills.com/ Darren

    What helps me persist with a goal is to ask the question, “How bad would I feel if I gave this up?”

    This usually provides proper perspective, and then I continue pressing on!

  • Anonymous

    Thank you for writing this.  <3

  • http://DefyStats.com Melodee Forbes

    Persistence and diligence are two words most people don’t want a part of their vocabulary because sometimes giving up can seem easier.

    I definitely don’t ever plan to give up, but I won’t deny that it’s 90% of the population and sometimes it is discouraging, but thankfully people like you, Maren Kate, inspire, push, and motivate us to continue to press on.

    This is an interesting video on a successful person’s take on quitting/being a quitter, http://youtu.be/qlVyydTKZFA . . interesting take/perspective, I haven’t read the book yet.

  • http://coffeenotinc.co.uk Tracy Baker

    Hi Maren

    Consistent Persistence is the key … I’ve started a few businesses in my time and have recently created a Virtual Assistant Company .. my reason for telling you this is that for the first time I feel truely proud of what I have created and have an instilled belief that it was what I was always meant to do if that makes sense lol

    I’ve recently started blogging and as you say, whilst you may put post after post out there and have few comments in the beginning I will keep going with it because I’m passionate about helping others and if I gave up I would not only be giving up on them but on myself.

    It takes courage to overcome procrastination but time and time again I have seen success in others through persistence … thank you for sharing Maren.

    Tracy 

  • http://www.winsomebella.wordpress.com winsomebella

    Funny what teachers come along our way.  Glad you were able to discern the lesson of persistence from the sleaze bags.  Wonderful reminder to stick to whatever it is you are dreaming.

  • http://www.VirtualZeta.com Maren Kate

    amen!

  • http://www.VirtualZeta.com Maren Kate

    I totally understand that feeling Tracy – I feel the same way about my company :) it’s an awesome feeling too.

  • http://www.VirtualZeta.com Maren Kate

    That looks rad, will check into it :) thanks for sharing!

  • http://www.VirtualZeta.com Maren Kate

    <3 back!

  • http://www.VirtualZeta.com Maren Kate

    That’s a good motivator – never thought of it that way

  • http://www.VirtualZeta.com Maren Kate

    So true, he would know too – he failed 1000′s of time before succeeding

  • http://www.VirtualZeta.com Maren Kate

    I love that book, i read it from time to time when I’m feeling down

  • http://www.VirtualZeta.com Maren Kate

    haha, persistent laziness – guess that counts!

  • http://www.VirtualZeta.com Maren Kate

    Action. That’s a whole other post!

  • http://www.VirtualZeta.com Maren Kate

    That’s what low self value will do to you

  • Leah Fulford

    This is the third time I’ve heard this quote over the course of the past month or so. Remarkable.

  • http://cruisesurfingz.com roy | cruisesurfingz.com

    Ok next time I go to a bar, I’m talking to every female there :P

  • http://livingonimpulse.com Markus

    So funny. This reminds me of http://tynan.com/persistence-alone (used the same quote), a post written by a guy who was a character in the book The Game by Neil Strauss, whose interview I just finished listening t0 on Mixergy http://mixergy.com/neil-strauss-interview/ who used to be big in teaching guys (like the above) game. The circle of liiiiiife! {with less lions}

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