This is a guest post by Nathan Hangen is a serial entrepreneur and Digital Emperor that teaches others how to do the same.

I started working when I was 13, at a local private swim club. At the time, minimum wage wasn’t much, but I was making less…somewhere around $2.15 per hour.

Aside from the obvious benefit of seeing my favorite teenage beauties walking around in bikinis, the job sucked. I can’t remember how long I lasted, but I’m certain that it wasn’t more than a few months.

My next job was at a local ice cream shop. My boss was a pain in the ass, and if it weren’t for the free ice cream, I probably wouldn’t have made it for the 2-3 months that I did.

By the time I was in my 20′s, I’d had no less than a dozen jobs, maybe more, and was starting to realize that this work thing sucked hardcore.

The American Dream is a scam

At one point I had a really nice job, earning around $12/hour, but when they laid off the lifers and kept us “temps” because we were cheaper, I didn’t feel right staying.

“So long and thanks for all the fish.”

At that point I decided to get back to the American Dream and go to college. I’d tried a few years prior, but felt like a caged animal and quit before the end of my first year.

Seeing a common trend here?

Although I wound up graduating with a B.S. in Psychology and a minor in religion, it wasn’t long before I realized that this “American Dream” was more of a sham than anything else.

Go to school, get good grades, go to college, get good grades, and get a nice job. Sounds easy, but I was really struggling with that last part.

Even the few jobs I did get after that point were completely unrelated to anything I’d studied or hoped to be doing.

Eventually I found a nice job as a manager in training for a Fortune 500 company. To my classmates, this was an awesome job, but I couldn’t find a way to take it seriously, and eventually I was fired a week before Christmas.

This turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.

Accept your greatness

If you read my story on Catherine Caine’s blog, you’ll learn what happened between then and now, but to save you the time (so you can keep reading) I’ll break it down for you.

I joined the Army, deployed, came home, and finally accepted the fact that I could never have a regular job again.

For years I’d tried to rationalize being like everyone else, even though every fiber of my being was steadfast in revolt.

Deep down I knew that I’d never be happy working for someone else, but I let the gatekeepers get to me and convince me that it was my “obligation” to do just that.

It’s the responsible thing to do, right?

Wrong.

If you’re lucky enough to be born with fire in your belly, the phoenix waiting to rise up out of the ashes that’s often so symbolic of an entrepreneur’s journey to greatness, then you owe to yourself…no, you owe it to the world to fulfill your destiny.

We entrepreneurs, warriors, and empire builders, blessed with a spark of insanity and rebellion, have no choice but to rise up and claim our birthright lest we find ourselves ripped apart from the inside out.

There’s nothing else we can do. There aren’t any other options. If we don’t fulfill our natural urge to create, invent, and innovate, then eventually we’ll become riddled with insanity.

Hell, some would say we already are.

Workers are a dime a dozen. They don’t take risks and leave chance for gambling halls and casinos.

However, we entrepreneurs are willing to shoulder all of the risk, not because we’re not afraid of failure, but because we can’t not do it. We want to know what’s on the other side.

We’re lured into the fray in the same manner that men leapt to their death upon hearing the call of the sirens.

It’s in our blood, and it’s our birthright.

Follow Your Siren

When others tell you that you’re crazy, see it as a blessing…as a sign that you’re on the right path.

As Maren says, who cares what others say about your dream?

You’re one of the few with the vision to see what lies ahead, and even though everyone else around you is trying to convince you that the world is flat, you know better.

On your entrepreneurial journey, you’re going to run into haters, whiners, and naysayers. You’ll run into gatekeepers and authority figures that want to keep you down.

Don’t let anyone stand in the way of your dreams. If you don’t fight for them, who will?

Nathan’s Beyond Blogging Project teaches bloggers how to become entrepreneurs, but he also teaches them how to rock through their workday with awesome grooves and kick-butt motivation (free sample).

  • http://askexperience.com Brett

    Powerful stuff.

    “There’s nothing else we can do. There aren’t any other options. If we don’t fulfill our natural urge to create, invent, and innovate, then eventually we’ll become riddled with insanity.”

    So true. I've got this natural urge to innovate and connect – just like, as an athlete (or a person with a pulse), I have an urge to exercise and be physical. If I don't exercise for three days in a row, I start going insane, with crazy mood swings coupled with massive amounts of aggression. I can only imagine what would happen if I was taken away from my creative side for the same amount of time…

    I like this Nathan guy, Maren. Thanks for featuring him. I'll go check out his blog now :)

    Cheers!

  • http://the-dame.com The Dame

    Ive either left or been fired from every job Ive ever had. Happily escaped 2004. :)

  • http://agilnetwork.blogspot.com/ Samuel Rodriguez

    I worked for 27 years for the same company. They saved millions of dollars with my work. In October 2008 came a new boss and decided to “save” my salary. Bad decision for them, good decision for me: Now I sell my knowledge to more companies. Now I can realize my dreams. I ran away from 9-5, and will never return.
    Good post Nathan.

  • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

    That's awesome Nathan – I've read your other post as well.
    It feels good to know that I'm not the only one who couldn't fit it – even though we live in different countries, I believe that the States and Europe are similar in that aspect. A capitalistic society making pressing you into a form that wasn't meant for you in the first place.

  • http://40daystochange.wordpress.com/ ami@40daystochange

    Nathan – great post. I like how you took what some people might have seen as 'failures' and turned them into life lessons. From that perspective, you learned quickly – some people never learn the lessons you learn – and then they wonder at then end of a long career in the 'right' type of job, why they feel let down. Thanks for sharing.

  • http://bitesizeidea.com/ Damien Olenslager

    Currently reading Malcolm Gladwell's awesome collection of essays. He explains that his journey to becoming a writer was long and far from smooth.

    First he wanted to be a lawyer, changed his mind, applied to 18 ad agencies and was rejected by all of them, thought about grad school but his grades weren't good enough, applied for a fellowship and was rejected. He says writing was the only thing left and only after exhausting other options did he consider writing as a career.

    Now he's the prolific author of The Tipping Point and Outliers. What his example shows is that sometimes we have to go through the sucky, crappy jobs in order to convince ourselves that what we truly were meant to do is what we should do!

  • http://principlesoffailure.blogspot.com/ SHerdegen

    You’re exactly right Nathan; people have to follow their gut. Too many times people force themselves to fit into the mold everyone else says is right when they know it doesn’t feel right to them.

    We can’t just do whatever we want in life (that would be too easy), but we can make our own path and do what we love doing.

  • http://seanandlauren.com Lauren Lionheart

    Damn Nathan, you nailed it. Thank you for sharing your story. I spent 10 years hopping from one unfulfilling wage slave job to another and wondering why I was supposed to be excited about the “American Dream”. It was torturous to put my energy into projects that I couldn't have cared less about.

    Your headlines summarized it perfectly:
    Ain’t no Job Gonna Hold Me Down
    The American Dream is a scam
    Accept your greatness
    Follow Your Siren

    May everyone start remembering how flipping awesome they are and start working on their OWN dreams…

  • http://www.girlstartup.com Girl Startup

    Really nice article here. There really is something to be said, in examining if you're cut-out to work for someone else. I spent too many years trying to conform, it was only when I decided to break-away and do what I want that things started to unfold. It seems a lot of us are clicking on to this fact, which is great. Nothing worse knowing others are suffering for no reason :)

  • http://nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    I'm permanently unemployable, and accepting that fact has made my life so much more fun :)

  • http://nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    Thanks Lauren, I really appreciate that. I think the American Dream still exists, just in a different form than many of us expected :)

    The real dream lies in the entrepreneur.

  • http://nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    Exactly. I think there's a commonality between doing what we love and doing what makes us money, but it's not as easy as just saying “OK.” It takes effort, and lots of it.

  • http://nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    I've only read Outliers, and although I was disappointed in the book, I could tell that Malcolm knows what he's talking about and is something special. Have Tipping Point staring at me now.

    Didn't know all of that about him, but it doesn't surprise me. He's an amazing example of just making good things happen. He's an inspirational leader, and there aren't enough of those.

  • http://nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    Thanks Ami, that's exactly right. At the time, it felt like a failure after another, but now I realize it all led me to where I am today, which is on the precipice of paradise :)

  • http://nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    Funny how that works isn't it? Shortsighted on their part, but a benefit to you. I love your style Samuel, and I know you're doing great work. I just wish I could see more of it!

  • http://nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    Yeah, I can't fit in at all. My entire family couldn't stand it, but now I stand alone as they watch me in awe. I don't say that to be cocky, but it's the reality. I took the steps they were afraid to take, and now they can't believe it. Feels good man.

  • http://nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    Woot! My kind of gal :)

  • http://nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    Same here Brett…I'm born to create, and every day I'm not creating is a day wasted. My temper flares, and I'm not pleasant. I just have to make good shit all day long. I love it.

    Glad to meet you :)

  • http://nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    Maren, you rock, thanks for having me :)

  • http://askexperience.com Brett

    Oh, trust me, the pleasure's all mine :)

  • http://www.2achieveyourgoals.com Dia

    Thanks Nathan for the very inspiring post.

    Exactly, we shouldn't let anything or anyone stand in our way. We can achieve everything we want to if we take action and persist. Thanks for sharing

  • http://experimentsinpassiveincome.com Moon Hussain

    How did I miss this post? Great post there, Nathan. I've only had 2 official jobs and have realized what the internet can do for and in turn, what can I do for other people.

    Create your own dream job ;)

  • strugglinginvestor

    I've only had really one job in my life and it has been keeping me from doing many of the things I want to do. More so in recent years as I've discovered what I really enjoy doing and what I really want out of my life.

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  • http://BloomingDreams.ning.com Demisha

    OMG! I love this post. I have been waiting for someone else who gets just as excited as I do when someone calls them Different or Crazy. I take it as a compliment. I feel like everything is falling into place when I'm told that I'm different. I want to be different and I'm very proud of it. For all of us who are excited because we're Different (also knows as Creative), enjoy life and escape the 9 to 5!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    If I'm different, then it means I'm doing something right :)

    I'm I'm crazy, then being crazy is what I want to be.

  • http://twitter.com/fwallinder Fredrik Wallinder

    Excellent post Nathan. I did make it through school and even got a PhD and a teaching job that I got fired from. Again someone wanted to “save”. So now I'm about to teach globally instead, on my terms. There should be a movement called “Fire Your Boss Now”.

  • http://nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    Actually, I think there is…but I can't remember where to find it…which means we need to bring it back :)

  • http://nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    Create your own dream job…exactly.

  • http://nathanhangen.com/blog Nathan Hangen

    Persistence is underrated. Keep opening those doors and eventually you find the land of your dreams.